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Rare day out

Honestly, it’s near impossible to get this child to find some free time to spend with us. And then to get her to pose for a photo! Miracle of miracles.

Catching the rays

It’s hardly winter, but the air is getting crispier and cooler, and so Lisa looks for any ray of sunlight …and then hogs it. I’m just here to take the photos!

A Mother’s Day treat

Took myself out for a custard slice and a whipped cream cappuccino. Kids were at home, so had some peace and quiet. A win-win!

Another notebook

Maybe one day I will have enough notebooks, but to day is not the day. Isn’t this one gorgeous? It also has a glossy finish, which makes it even better. And its a blank. Perfection!

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Welcome to Day 3 of 100 Day Writing Challenge.

A hill I will die on: life is designed to be a rollercoaster. It’s literally unavoidable that it will be a cycle of ups and downs. Some downs can be traumatic (unexpected death of a loved one) or much less extreme (a bumper bashing, an argument with your loved one, traffic). The ups also have a vast range, from exhilarating (birth of your child) to a bit of fun (call with your best friend, unexpected flowers).

If you are trying to optimise for a perfect, stable life you’re wasting your time. No such thing exists. Whatever the circumstances, if life is not moving you up and down emotionally, it simply means you’re bored. And even then, reality will soon catch up with you. In other words, there is no point in asking why life is so hard. It’s like asking why water is wet. It just is. Part of its inherent make-up.

For sure, some cycles are more brutal than others. But even the cycles are themselves cyclical. You might be going through hell right now, and when you get through it you will have some respite, where the “bad stuff” will be relatively mild. But rest assured, the brutality is coming around again.

So when you’re in a down (as I am now, temporarily) ask yourself: how deep is this down? Could it have been worse? Chances are, yep it could be. In which case…ride the down, and wait for the inevitable up. It’s coming. (And don’t forget to savour it when it arrives!)

Thanks for reading,
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In my most recent newsletter I wrote about Zac’s 100 day challenge (he’s creating and posting 100 days of YouTube shorts), which inspired my friend Laura to do her own 100 days, which of course then inspired me to do the same ….and here we are.

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