Zac Blumenow

Zac’s soccer match was cancelled, which freed up his Saturday morning for a tennis match against Sean, my sister’s sidekick. I think this is the first real game he’s played outside of his weekly squad meet and 1-on-1 coaching. He loved it, and he was surprisingly good. Could have something to do with his new racket which is more suitable to his style than the previous one. (Funny side story: Zac told me in a very serious “I’ve thought about this” voice that you need to be a top 100 tennis player worldwide if you hope to make any money out of it. I jokingly asked him if that was his plan (I emphasize the work “jokingly” here!) to which he solemnly replied “Think so”. He wasn’t joking. Oh, to have the confidence of youth! Between his tennis aspirations and YouTuber dreams, this kid might not need a college fund?)

While Zac was playing tennis, Micole was sitting in the gardens watching, and studying for her acturial exams. No YouTube dreams for her! I sat in the car, and wrote this post, about creating a list of xx goals for myself. That was a fun exercise…I’m well on my way to checking off all points.

Took the out for a scoop of the best ice cream in town, at Aroma. Sorry, no photos. But it was Strawberry Cream for him, and Turkish Delight for her. Then came home and made real strawberries and cream. I like mine blitzed in the NutriBullet, with lots of cream and lots of sugar. I threw in some fresh blueberries, and also ate them by the handful.

Spent the afternoon fixing up this blog, and getting lost on Twitter. No, I will not call it X. Ended up going down a rabbit hole of good reads.

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Hi! I’m Eve, 50 yr old single mom of two fabulous children (Micole and Zac) and a delightful dog (Lisa). I have a cupboard full of high heels, and a long wish list of when I will wear them and where. But the reality is that I am much more likely to be found wearing sneakers, running around doing a whole lot of this and that. 

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